When you first started your family planning journey, infertility probably didn’t even cross your mind, and that’s perfectly normal. Most of us start our trying to conceive journey by having sex a few times a week and keeping our fingers crossed. Then, after a few months, you might start tracking your ovulation cycles to give yourself a higher chance of hitting the jackpot. But what if it still doesn’t happen after that? After a lot of doctor visits and testing, you might be told you are infertile, and then the involuntary stigma and shame of infertility can creep into your life because you worry about how the world views your situation.
Infertility is a deeply personal and emotional issue that affects many people around the world. Unfortunately, it is also a subject that carries a great deal of shame and stigma. For those struggling with infertility, this stigma can be overwhelming and isolating. Therefore, it is important to recognise and address this issue so that those who are affected can receive the support and understanding they need.
Understanding Infertility
Firstly, it is essential to understand that infertility is never a choice. It is a medical condition that can affect both men and women. Many people feel that they are somehow to blame for their infertility, which can lead to guilt and shame. However, infertility is caused by factors beyond an individual’s control, such as genetics, health conditions or environmental factors.
Infertility is an issue that is more common than most people think. According to the World Health Organisation, infertility affects up to 1 in 6 couples of reproductive age. This means that many people are going through the same struggles, and it should not be kept secret or something to feel ashamed of.
Causes of infertility
Infertility is a complex subject. A variety of factors, such as hormonal imbalances, endometriosis, or low sperm count, can cause it. Infertility treatments can be equally difficult and often expensive, including in vitro fertilisation (IVF), hormone therapy, and surgery. These treatments can be emotionally and physically taxing, and the stigma surrounding infertility and lack of support can make the process even more difficult.
Infertility is a complex subject. A variety of factors, such as hormonal imbalances, endometriosis, or low sperm count, can cause it. Infertility treatments can be equally difficult and often expensive, including in vitro fertilisation (IVF), hormone therapy, and surgery. These treatments can be emotionally and physically taxing, and the stigma surrounding infertility and lack of support can make the process even more difficult.
Breaking down the shame and stigma of infertility
Breaking down the shame and stigma surrounding infertility requires a shift in attitudes. When was the last time you overheard someone openly talking about their IVF journey or that they are considering IUI to start a family? Unfortunately, the short answer is almost never. This needs to change.
It is vital to create a space where people feel comfortable talking openly about their experiences. This can include sharing stories, resources, and support groups. It is also important for medical professionals to provide compassionate and supportive care to those struggling with infertility.
If you are struggling with infertility, please know that you are not alone. We created the Hoopsy fertility community for women like you to share experiences and seek support on their fertility journeys.
There is no shame in seeking help and support. Reach out to loved ones or seek out a support group. Remember that infertility is a medical condition and not a reflection of you as a person.
Final thoughts
the shame and stigma surrounding infertility are pervasive and harmful. It is important to break down these barriers and create a culture of compassion and support. By acknowledging that infertility is a common and complex issue, we can work towards creating a more inclusive and understanding society for those struggling. If you are struggling with infertility or worried about your ttc journey, please come and join the conversation over in the Hoopsy community. We can’t wait to meet you!
